I have been with my Boyfriend for 7 months and we just started having sex last month (I lost my virginity to him). I love when he’s on top it makes me feel so good but, I don’t want him to have to do all the work. Since I’ve just recently started having sex I’ve never been on top before. I have no idea what to do even if I were to get on top. He told me he would help me if I did but I’m just so nervous. I don’t want to disappoint him or anything. Next time we get together I want to attempt to be in top. What should I do? Can you give me some tips and tricks? Thanks in advance Miss Tila!
This sounds like some very new and exciting times for you, but first and foremost, I would just like to remind you to always use protection or some form of birth control. A lot of people make the mistake of not using them and end up having unwanted pregnancy and I’m pretty sure that’s not what you both are ready for right now. So please, please always use protection if you plan on going further and having more sex with your boyfriend in the future!
Now on to some sex advice on what to do while you’re on top. I understand you are nervous since you have never really done this before, but it sounds to me like your boyfriend is willing to be patient and teach you how. So don’t worry about disappointing him because I assure you that he’s more thrilled about the fact that you gave him your virginity and that he’s even getting to have sex at all! So whatever else experience that you are lacking I’m sure it will be a great experience for both you and your boyfriend to go through them together. Don’t let those thoughts of insecurity or doubt rush through your mind because it will help greatly when you are also mentally prepared.
It’s always sexier when a woman is confident in what she is doing in the bedroom even if she’s not so sure of what exactly it is that she’s doing. It doesn’t matter just as long as you’re confident the rest will follow. As for being on top of him… I think you making that first move the next time you two are together would definitely turn him on as well as give you more confidence in the bedroom since you are now learning to take control. Remember not to worry about anything else because once you are on top of him your body will naturally guide you on how to move. Just put his penis inside of you slowly at first and don’t be shy about it. Then once you feel him inside of you all the way you can either put your hands on his chest to help give your body some support as you start to thrust your hips back and forth. Keep on doing that until you feel the shaft of his penis deep inside of you while it is hitting your G spot. Trust me…. you’ll feel it, but it’s important you not think about anything else except for being in the moment. Close your eyes if that will help. Just let the FEELINGS and SENSATIONS guide you as the rest of the world fades away.
Another thing you can do on top while you’re riding him is actually lean over while he is still inside of you and give him like a half hug. This way your naked breasts will be touching his and it will drive him wild as you start to bounce up and down on his penis. All you literally have to do is lean over, and bounce your ass up and down on his shaft. Sorta like doing mini squats, but just on top of your boyfriend instead. You can also kiss him while you’re doing this or kiss him on his neck so that there is even more stimulation going on, but since it’s your first time don’t overwhelm yourself. Just let your body movements flow naturally! This move usually drives a man crazy! Also, as you are doing this I’m sure he will start to also thrust his own hips up and down while his hands are on your hips as he pushes his way deep inside of you! This way it will also give him some control while he is on the bottom so he can keep thrusting his penis inside of you! Just keep on practicing and I’m sure you’ll be a pro in no time! lol There are a lot more ways to do things while you are on top, but since you are still on level 1 of learning let’s just get you past these basic steps first until you can officially know how to “Ride him like the rodeo!”- As I always like to joke around and say! He’ll love you for it! lol Have fun now, but always remember to use safety first!!! -Miss Tila
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