Ok so ever since I wrote a blog post yesterday here, “Help! I need some sex tips on how to ride my boyfriend“- giving a girl advice on how to ride her boyfriend for starters, I have received a TON of emails from the ladies asking me for more tips on what to do for next for levels 2-3. Which I would consider pro status! And of course as we all know, I am a pro when it comes to sex! Now let us all get started shall we?
I just read your advice on How To Ride Your BF and loved it!! I’m not a virgin however tips on that specific aspect of sex would help out a lot! This guy I’ve been seeing, he’s experienced and GREAT in bed but when I am on top, I literally don’t know what else to do. I guess I’ve graduated the level 1 you’ve given but is love to know more, learn more. You’re so sexy I’m sure your tips can help me drive this man WILDLY INSANE! Thanks!!
Sounds to me like you are willing and ready to take things to the next steps in the bedroom with your man to get things heated up! This will not only be fun for you to experiment with, but also for you boyfriend who will have no idea what has gotten into you, but I assure you that it will most DEFINITELY drive him crazy… or “WILDY INSANE!” – as you put it. Now that I have already gotten level 1 out-of-the-way we can get started on level 2 and 3 which are the really fun parts!
Men are very visual creatures so it helps out a lot when you can not only provide him with pleasure, but also provide him with something visually stimulating to look at while having sex. What most women don’t realize is that they are way more insecure with themselves than necessary because most guys don’t even notice half of the things we tend to notice about ourselves. This is the first major no, no when it comes to transforming yourself into a sex goddess! As long as you are confident with yourself and set aside all of your insecurities or what you THINK he may be noticing about you then trust me…. you are already well on your way to becoming a pro as soon as you can get over your own insecurity issues with your body etc. For example when I was about 17 years old I was probably one of the most flat chested girls out there, but I didn’t care! I used to ride my man like the rodeo until the sun came out and it drove him crazy!! As long as you are confident behind everything you do in the bedroom that alone will spice things up 100%! It’s hard for anyone to get turned on in the bedroom when you have to sit there and have a counseling or therapy session about each other’s insecurity issues! Men want a hot, sexy, and wild woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to explore with him!
One of my favorite things to do while on top is to be in a squatting position while his penis is deep inside of you. This is a position to do only if you are in good shape because doing a ton of squats non-stop, you’re gonna start to feel those thigh muscles burning, but the good part is that at least you will get a great work out while you’re at it! Keep on bouncing up and down on his penis in the squatting position while your full frontal vagina is all in the open right in front of his face. Then you can either use your right or your left hand (whichever you prefer) to help you as you lean all the way back as far as you can go. Then use your free hand to rub on your clit while still bouncing up and down on him. This way, not only will he feel good, but at the same time he will get a full frontal and SEXY visual of his own penis pounding himself inside of you while watching you play with yourself at the same time!!! This combination of sensation and visual combined will drive him insane! Not to mention if he starts to see your wetness drip down all over his penis! The more splashy it gets, the more turned on he will get! Not to mention you, yourself will have control over where you want all of the spots to hit your G-spot!
Now aside from feelings, sensations, and visuals I must add in that SOUND is also a very important factor! So while you are giving him this full sex combo be sure to add in a lot of your sexy sounds so he knows how good his penis feels being inside of you! Every man loves to hear that. What helps even more is if you actually verbally tell him during sex how much you love feeling him deep inside of you, oh baby that feels SO GOOD RIGHT THERE! Etc… things like that always turns a man on because his mind will go into overload trying to process everything at once! From feeling your dominance taking over him while on top, while watching you visually bein so sexy, while feeling his penis throbbing at every bounce that you do, all of that combined with the sounds of your voice, telling him things he’ll love to hear all at the same time… OH BOY! In most cases he will probably already have busted a good one before you will even finish because that’s how good it’ll be for him!
Another thing you can do while you are still in that position is to turn around to do the reverse cowgirl on him. What’s even hotter is that if you can do it WITHOUT pulling out. Keep him inside of you the whole time and just spin around. He will be baffled at first and wonder what’s going on, but once he realizes what you are doing he’ll get even more aroused! Once you are sitting in the reverse cowgirl position you can start to ride him for a little while so that he thinks that’s the only thing you’re doing… THAT IS… until you pull another total surprise on him by getting on your hands and knees (sorta like a doggy-style position) except still being in reverse cowgirl position. Start bouncing on his penis up and down once again (sorta like a backwards twerk on his penis) but this time he will get to see your full rear end pounding up and down on his shaft right in front of his face! He will lose it! This will give him a great grasp onto your fine booty and get so aroused by you that he will start to thrust his own hips up and down to pound his penis inside of you! He is going to want to pound you from that position because there’s nothing sexier to a guy than a woman who’s not shy to get a little naughty for her man! All of this will just blow his mind…. as well as his load! lol
The more booty slapping and smacking sounds going on… the better! And remember, if you feel like you’re going cum so hard that a strange “peeing-like” sensation feels like it’s about to come out… do not worry! Just relax your muscles and let it out because it’s not “PEE” but it will be your first time squirting and THAT is a guaranteed for sure thing that EVERY GUY LOVES TO SEE A WOMAN DO! But that is still for level 4 & beyond, sex professionals, however anyone can accomplish that skill as long as you continue to feel comfortable with your own body and have an open mind to explore with your boyfriend. What people get mistaken is that sex is only a physical thing when really it is just as much a mental thing and if you can accomplish both of those things, I promise you he will never want to look at another woman or be with another woman again! You will be his own personal sex goddess! HAVE FUN!!! But most importantly… always have safe sex!! Remember that practice makes perfect so do not worry if you don’t get it down the first time… you will eventually and you both will love every second of it! Enjoy!!! – Miss Tila
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