Having been working in the entertainment industry for 15 very long years now it’s safe to say that I am quite a credible source when it comes to giving advice on learning how to “not give a fuck” what people think of you! What I have learned from being in the public eye after all of these years and being so close with my fans from giving advice, to reading your emails, and getting to know you all as a whole, has given me a lot of insight on what the general public truly thinks and feels about themselves behind closed doors. With that all I have to say is we are all FUCKED in the head one way or another. None of us is perfect. Nobody is. It’s just impossible. The only difference is that now with the internet age booming everyone has a way to hide behind their computer screens and either portray a very seemingly “happy” life while really those very same people most likely have some really serious depression issues or something else going wrong in their lives. So it’s very true when the saying goes, “Never judge a book by it’s cover.” Me of all people know that better than anyone else out there!
So now I am here to share my wonderful knowledge with you all on learning how to not give a flying fuck what anyone thinks about you! First of all just remember that those people hating on your or gossiping about you online or in school or at work or WHEREVER else, just know that they most likely 100% of the time have issues of their own to work out in their personal lives. What I have learned through my life lessons and experiences is that people who are truly, truly happy with themselves don’t really gossip or go out of their way to hate on people. Especially online. They just don’t. Truly happy people don’t need to put up a facade about how perfect their world and their love life is. It just is and this keeps them busy so they really don’t have time to waste on negative energy and hating on other people. So the ones that do, I can almost guarantee you that those are the ones with major, deep-seeded issues going on in their lives that is why they are always talking down on you. But what’s important is that you KNOW what I say is true so that you don’t ever let it get to you!
You must remind yourself that:
- Do these people pay your bills? No? Ok then they can shut the fuck up and suck it!
- Do these people have better lives than you? Most likely they do not if they are hating on you.
- Would it make any difference whatsoever in your life if any of these morons died tomorrow? No? ok then they can fuck off too!
- Do these people have some really dark and shameful secrets that they hide about themselves? Most likely they do so that’s the only reason why they try so hard to make it seem like they have perfect lives while picking on yours. Remember, truly happy people just do not do these things. We’re too busy being happy and in love with life to bother.
- Do they have anything else better to do? Apparently they do not. You give them life. You give them some drama to thrive off of and something to do in their mundane and boring lives. You give them some sort of a daily dose of attention and drama and without you, they would cease to exist. Making them want to further commit suicide of their intense loneliness. So with that? Yeah they can fuck off anytime.
- Why would you let these morons words hurt your feelings? Have you seen what the fuck they look like for them to talk? Real confident, kind, and sweet people don’t need to push others down to feel better about themselves so the ones that do are most likely jealous of you one way or another. I guarantee it.
- So what if you like to fuck? Who is anyone to talk shit about you? They are most likely angry because while you’re out there getting laid and getting paid they’re at home all alone online jerking it in their mama’s basement. Why in the hell would you let those types of vermin hurt your feelings?
- Next time anyone says anything bad about you there is always one answer to solve this issue: Tell them to FUCK OFF!
- If they do not fuck off then you can bet your ass that they are envious of you!
- Love yourself and know that you are the bomb dot com! If you have people talking shit about you or hating on you then you KNOW you are doing something right! Now fuck off and have a great life!
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